在旅途中的某点他们吵架了，
一个还给了另外一个一记耳光。
被打的觉得受辱，
一言不语，
在沙子上写下："今天我的好朋友打了我一巴掌。"
他们继续往前走。
直到到了沃野，
他们就决定停下。
被打巴掌的那位差点淹死，
幸好被朋友救起来了。
被救起後，
他拿了一把小剑在石头上刻了："今天我的好朋友救了我一命。"
一旁好奇的朋友问说：为什麽我打了你以後，
你要写在沙子上，而现在要刻在石头上呢？
另个笑笑的回答说：当被一个朋友伤害时 ， 要写在易忘的地方 ， 风会负责抹去它；
相反的如果被帮助 ， 我们要把它刻在心里的深处 ， 那里任何风都不能抹灭它。
translation:
once...there were 2 good friends went for a holiday...
in the middle of the trip...they have a quarrel and friend A give friend B a slap in his face...
feeling upset...friend B wrote on the sands," today my friend give me a slap!"
then they continue their trip...
till they reach a place...
where both decided to stop and take a rest...
however...friend B almost drown...
friend A quickly save his life...
after friend B was saved...he decided to craft on a stone, "today my friend save me!"
friend A was very curious and he decided to ask friend B, "why after i hit you, you wrote and sands? and now...you craft on stones?"
friend A smile and reply, "when one got hurt by his friend... he should write on a place that is easy to forget and wind will take it's responsibility to blow it away... whereas if one got help, we should craft it deep inside our heart where no wind could destroy or blow it away!"
HOPE YOU LYK THE STORY...
朋友的相处伤害往往是无心的，
(often friends don't mean to hurt you)
帮助却是真心的，
(but they truely wants to help you)
忘记那些无心的伤害；
(forget those hurts which they don't mean to )
铭记那些对你真心帮助，
(and remember those helps they give)
你会发现这世上你有很多真心的朋友...
(and you will realise...there are many true friends in this world)
俗语说:
你只需要花一分钟注意到一个人；
一小时内变成朋友：
一天让你爱上他；
一但真心爱上 . . .
你却需要花上一生的时间将他遗忘，
直至喝下那孟婆汤...
once a chinese phrase says:
you only need a minute to notice some one
one hour to become friends
one day to fall in love
but once you really fall in love
you need to use your whole life to forget him
even drinking down the "meng po tang" - a soup that chinese believe that once you dies...you have to drink in order to forget what happen in this life.
do visit this url:
http://www.chinaswitch.com/caoka/jieri/newyear/index.htm
朋友呀！
(dear friends)
当你看到这里，
(when you read till here...)
你是否有一点启示呢？
(is there any thing touches you?)
在日常生活中，
(in our daily life)
就算最要好的朋友也会有磨擦，
(even best friends do quarrel)
我们也许会因这些磨擦而分开。
(sometimes we may be separated due to this quarrels)
但每当夜阑人静时，
(every late, quiet night)
我们望向星空，
(when we stare into the sky)
总会看到过去美好回忆。
(often we see those good and beautiful memories)
不知为何，
(don't know why)
一些锁碎的回忆，
(some bad memories)
却为我寂寞的心灵带来无限的震撼！
(let our lonely heart feels sad)
就是这感觉，
(this is feeling)
令我更明白你对我的重要！
(allow me to understand the fact that you are important to me!)
在此，我希望你能更珍惜你的朋友。
(hereby, i wish that you could treasure your friends)